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 Some men have a uterus.

Some women don’t have a uterus.

Some people aren’t a man or a woman and have a uterus.

It’s hard to watch all my friends call this an attack on women. 

It’s not.

 It’s an attack from the patriarchy on all marginalized communities, like always. Oppression intersects. 

Maybe this is the first time it’s directly affected you, a woman. But all of the acts of oppression in the past have affected you indirectly. If you have no idea what I’m talking about, and you feel offended by what I’m saying, it might be time to do some reading. Education is a very strong tool.

We need to make damn sure no one from one marginalized group is fighting with someone from another, ever again. We need to link arms and stand up to the patriarchy and PUSH BACK. 

We’ve been STILL living by the rules written by a bunch of white men in 1776 that were specifically designed to let them maintain their power. 

This is 2022. I want to see less cis men in charge. I want to see tons of women CEOs. I want to see a non-binary president. I want to see an Indigenous president. I want to see Black people in positions of power every where. It’s ridiculous we’ve let old, white, cis het men do everything for so long.

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